I was cleaning the house last Sunday and I found photos in my farang boyfriend?s top draw. Naturally curious, I began to look through them, I was horrified to find about 50 pictures of different girls, bar girls. I began to cry as I looked at these photos, the girls look so low and trashy and it made me feel sick.

The photos looked like trophy shots of bar girls he had slept with. I then looked at his facebook page and found some of these sleazy girls listed as his friends. I know that I am a little romantic; but I hate to think of him with these girls, it?s hard to come to terms with his past.?


Poor you...well maybe he is a good man who looked for love and affection in the wrong places? Try not too judge too harshly. Remember, this may have been a stage that he went through when he was new to Thailand. Prostitutes in America and Europe are very different, here the ?bar girl? conversation and game play make the whole process more friendly.

Many western men see it more as ?paid girlfriend? or light hearted fun. If you want to have a conversation with him about his past make sure that you can deal with the answers. Otherwise, try to forget and concentrate on your present relationship instead.

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